FAQs
Why did you start this page?
I started this page as an additional pathway in my quest to finding love, after trying so many other avenues in the past, with little to no success. There is no guarantee if this method will work, but there is no harm in trying either.
Have you ever been in a relationship?
Never, and that’s the God’s honest truth! I had crushes on many girls and women in the past (I still do today), but either they didn’t feel the same about me, or are already in a relationship themselves.
Why is it so important for you to be in a relationship?
Part family tradition. Part personal pride. But most of all, it’s my main goal in life, the biggest and most important step I shall ever take. I know not everyone will feel the same as I do. Some of you might even say being in a relationship and getting married is the most miserable feeling in the world, but “to each their own.”
I know being in a relationship and getting married is not the “cure-all” for all the loneliness and sadness one feels in life. But it can also, certainly, be the remedy. Just think of the many fun times and memories that lie ahead for the two of us, if you choose to be with me.
The idea of falling in love, getting married, and starting a family is a time-tested tradition, and (if you’ll forgive my clichéd sentiment) one that is worth living and fighting for. That is why it is also so difficult for me to attain!
Did you get any help from your family or friends, to see if they can help you find someone?
Indeed, I have. Some folks even came through in at least finding someone for me to talk to, (for which I’m grateful), even if they didn't have to in the first place.
Mind you, the results have been mixed, so far. I’ve been introduced to a few friendly faces, here and there, but nothing serious has ever come out of it. Also, if I had a dollar every time my mother has spoken to all our family, friends, and colleagues if they know someone for me, I’d be ahead now on my savings!
What about matchmaking?
I’m currently in touch with one. With their input, I put together this webpage to see if it can “speed things up” with the search process. While we haven’t come across any matches, so far, we’re still hoping there will be one soon.
Are you picky? Is that maybe a reason why you’re struggling a bit?
I admit, yes, I can be picky with my own choices. Some may even say I am too picky. Then again, why shouldn’t I be?
My personal rule is to “never settle.” Why would I sell myself short, especially if this is someone who I want to spend the rest of my life with? When I choose who I want to be with, I aim for the best. Again, she doesn’t need to be perfect, though I do have a certain type.
In the same token, yes, I may not have all the qualities that women expect from their ideal man. For every “disadvantage” I seem to possess, perhaps I could make up for it in other areas? For instance, I may not be the tallest, but I have a big heart. The only thing missing is who do I share and open it with.